Thoughts on The Florida Project

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A couple weeks ago my husband and I went to see the new film, The Florida Project. When I first saw the film’s poster in our local theater months ago, I had made a quick mental note to see it. Being as I grew up in coastal Florida, I imagined that because it was a story of Florida, it would no doubt feature the white sand and beauty of the ocean, which I miss. By the time we went to see the film, though, I knew that it was about something else entirely.

The story follows the lives of small children and their mothers or, in one case, a grandmother, who live in motels along Route 192 near Disney World, all caught in poverty, bad decisions, some form of abandonment, and hopelessness. There's not a single beach scene. But the story line also follows that of Bobby, played by Willem DaFoe, the manager of The Magic Castle, the budget motel where the film’s primary child and mother live on a weekly basis. For all the reasons to see the film based on the story line and the outstanding performance of the 7-year-old Floridian, Brooklynn Prince, whom we will no doubt be seeing more of in years to come, it’s the story of Bobby that most captured my attention.

The film’s director, Sean Baker, had been on Charlie Rose in mid-October talking about his film. He described how he had researched for the film by talking with people in the area where it was shot. In particular, he spoke of a motel manager he met:

"We would go and see who was interested in telling their stories or giving us information about the Route 192, which is where this was shot. And this was—this involved us speaking to residents at the motels, the small business owners, some the motel managers, and some the agencies that actually provided social services to people in need in the area. And there was one—there was actually one man in particular, a motel manager, who really opened up his world to us. In a way, he was our passport in. He wanted—he felt that this was a story that should be told, … and he was actually managing one of these budget motels directly across the street from the Magic Castle Motel where we shot. And he was in a very tough position when he was actually working there. It has since closed. But he had compassion for the families and the kids who were there. He understood the struggles they were going through. And, yet, he, you know, had a job. He had to hold onto. And he knew that perhaps any night he might have to evict one of these families and put them out on the street if they couldn't come up with the nightly rate. So, it was a tough position for him. I could see this obvious—this compassion, but I also saw a distance that he would keep from them. And it was like a reluctant parental figure in many ways. I saw it not only with him but a few of the other motel managers we met. And I think it very much inspired our Bobby character."

DaFoe’s character captures an aspect of work that I tried to describe in Finding Livelihood: that of doing one thing, for which you’re paid, but that may be far from what you most want to do or feel “called” to do, while at the same time also doing something far bigger on another plane, maybe all the time and all along or maybe only for a moment, participating in a for-such-a-time-as-this sort of thing. Parallel realities. Bobby kept the books, he kept the rules, he kept the place clean. Job description met! But he also kept his people safe, he guided and cared, he gave hope, he loved. If you missed the movie trailer, hyperlinked in the first sentence, take a look now and you'll get a hint of what I'm talking about.

A tool for a spiritual and occupational journey

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With deep gratitude I have some links and brief excerpts to share from a couple reviews of Finding Livelihood. After years of writing alone at a desk it always feels like rather a miracle to find that those solitary words can go like an arrow into someone else's mind and heart and Voilá, there is human camaraderie on this journey.

The first review is written by Kenneth Garcia in a column in Notre Dame Magazine. I love that he starts out by stating he also has had a struggle to come to terms with "a spiritual calling that both demands attention and 'refuses' to come to fruition." I wish I could get a show of hands for who else can relate to that.

About one of the vocational quandries Finding Livelihood poses, Garcia writes:

"Nordenson admires the theologian Frederick Buechner's poetic phrase about vocation: 'the place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world's deep hunger meet.' She also finds the sentiment unconvincing. Why? Well, life happens. The need to make a living in tough times and the responsibilities one has to others exert their own call, and those calls obligate as much or more as one's 'deep gladness' and spiritual desire. 'Who but a very small minority,' she asks, 'can find that exact intersection [of one's deep gladness and the world's deep hunger] and from it feed a family?'"

Maybe you've had these thoughts and questions too. Here's the link and I do hope you click through and read the rest of Garcia's review.

The second review, written by Greg Richardson (aka "Strategic Monk"), is in the Presence Journal, a publication of Spiritual Directors International. Writing to readership of spiritual directors, Richardson calls Finding Livelihood "an insightful, personal tool for our work with people on a spiritual and occupational journey."

He continues:

"Finding Livelihood is not a how-to book filled with checklists and targeted goals. It is deeper and more rewarding than that, reflecting on deep truth. Spiritual guides will find this a useful resource, particularly while accompanying spiritual directees who desire to integrate the daily place where love and labor meet."

The image of this - my little book being used to help others "integrate the daily place where love and labor meet" - is thrilling and humbling. May it be so. Here's the link to read the rest of Richardson's review.

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If you find my writing on this blog or in my book to be something that's good in your life, would you consider sharing one or both of these reviews, perhaps with someone who you think might like to read the book, maybe someone who is on a spiritual and occupational journey? Or would you consider writing your own review on Amazon?  Thank you for considering. I'll be back next week with something noncommercial. :)

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[Photo: taken of a bulletin board at U of Chicago; don't call any of the numbers for job opening you see because it's several years old; does anyone still use "physical" bulletin boards to post jobs anymore?]

Gathering 2015: a review of this year's posts

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[NOTE: The links in this post are no longer correct]

I spent a couple hours this morning reviewing my blog posts from 2015. In The Art of Thinking, Ernest Dimnet wrote, “To keep no track of what one learns or thinks is as foolish as to till and seed one’s land with great pains, and when the harvest is ripe turn one’s back upon it and think of it no more.” I agree with Dimnet and so look back at posts, journals, book notes, and other evidences of – and learning from – this life journey, this blog being a piece of that. I believe in being a student of one's life.

But I also reviewed my posts in order to gather them together in one place with some kind of organizing structure for readers' use. New subscribers have come on throughout the year and may find this a handy list of posts, and even regular readers miss posts or may like to revisit posts. Here they are – well, most of them – grouped into categories. 

A couple preliminary comments: 1) this is the year that Finding Livelihood came out so that category got a heavy weighting; 2) these categories are fluid and artificially narrow - for example, most of the posts could be under a single category of "paying attention to your life" or "living with intention" or "living a meaningful life," and the posts for books could be distributed under multiple categories, and the posts "on hope" could just as well be listed as "on love" or "on pilgrimage."

I offer this list to you as a place in which to dip in and read, to peruse at random or with strategy, in the hope that whatever words you choose to read or re-read may come alongside you as you wind up your 2015 and launch whatever is next.

On astonishment and gratitude:

On pilgrimage and choices:

On love and community:

On leisure, rest, sabbath:

On books and the ideas they contain:

On writing and creativity:

On hope:

On Finding Livelihood:

On work: 

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About this blog:

[Photo: taken of the Christmas day landscape. True color, no filter.]

Unemployment revisited

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A recap of my last week's Wednesday through Sunday. Let's begin with this: Wednesday, an announcement: my husband's job was cut. Everyone knows new owners get to choose their own teams and so this one did. Thursday, I went by to say goodbye to the place, bringing a cup of Starbucks coffee and a donut for him as a last office treat. Back out to the car, break down, buck up; I've been in this seat before. A friend sent an email and what I read in her words was, "I see you," written by the God who sees. Friday night, when it was over, we sat under the evening sky and rang out the old and in the new. Heads high, hearts heavy, hoping. Sunday morning, a line in the responsive reading: "The steadfast love of the Lord endures forever." That night, we darkened our house and stood together in the yard to glimpse the red moon.

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[Photo: another shot taken while walking in Brooklyn last month; I love this - an angled path across the sidewalk. Fitting.]

So grateful to Byron Borger at Hearts & Minds Books for this review of Finding Livelihood

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I am bursting with gratitude for a review of Finding Livelihood by Byron Borger at Hearts & Minds Books. Borger is a huge champion of books, and last week he chose to champion mine. The review of this book about work was timely, just at the start of the Labor Day weekend, and so generous. Plus it was appropriately paired with a review of Invisibles: Celebrating the Unsung Heroes of the Workplace, a book by David Zweig just out in paperback.

Here's a piece of what he said. Adding this now, I'm nearly blushing, and when I first read it, seated in a corner cafe in Brooklyn, where we were last week, I could barely swallow my lunch.

"Finding Livelihood is not at all common, it is beyond uncommon. It is not just good. It is nothing short of extraordinary and I doubt if you have ever read a book quite like it. It is wise, thoughtful, literary, poetic, full of stories - stories that are often exceptionally mundane but made exceptionally meaningful by Nancy Nordenson's extraordinary prose."

You can read the rest of the review here.

The writing of a book, at least for me, is done privately and with fear and trembling. To have someone see it and cheer it when it finally emerges is such a gift.

Grateful, so grateful.

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[Photo: taken of street in Red Hook section of Brooklyn.]

In gratitude for good words about Finding Livelihood: the ongoing work and faith conversation

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More good words about Finding Livelihood went out over digital space in the last couple weeks. It's not easy for books published by small presses and written by small writers to make their way in the world, and I'm so grateful when somebody spots mine and gives it a shout-out.

David Clark reviewed it for Englewood Review of Books. You can read his review here. If you're not familiar with this book review website, it could be worth your while to subscribe to their weekly email or visit the site from time to time. As they describe themselves: "We review books that we believe are valuable resources for the people of God, as we follow the mission of God: i.e., the reconciliation of all things. The books we review are not necessarily books from the 'Christian market,' and most of the books that we review will not be stocked in your local Christian bookstore. Our friend, Shane Claiborne, likes to say that 'Another World is Possible,' and indeed we hope that the books we review point toward a new world that is characterized by the justice and shalom of God."

A new podcast, called The Sectarian Review, aired last week on the Christian Humanist Network. Its first episode was on vocation. Within that rich hour-and-twenty-minutes episode, Allison Backous Troy, in conversation with her colleagues, spent a few minutes talking about Finding Livelihood. (I think she used the word "magnificent," which pleased me greatly.) She also spoke eloquently about the fallacy of balance, about the longing for a unified life, how things change when you have a child and bills to pay, the difficulties of adjunct teaching and other pieced together work, and so on. Here's an outline of that episode and you can listen to it here.

And finally, the Satellite Sisters. I'm a big fan of these five sisters. Not only because they are the aunts of one of my lovely daughters-in-law. Not only because they are as charming in person as they are on their show. And not only because they mentioned my book in this week's podcast. But also because their conversations are smart and witty and have a way of throwing a net of friendship and sisterhood over all their listeners. Take a listen to this episode in which the sisters explain Stephen Hawking's latest black hole theory using an analogy of socks in the laundry, tackle and solve the problem of student loan debt, demonstrate the application of Post-It notes for conversational use, and yes, review my book.

On "the new insecurity" by Allison Pugh on Salon.com: How then shall we live and work?

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Last week Salon.com ran an excerpt from a new book by Allison J. Pugh, The Tumbleweed Society: Working and Caring in an Age of Insecurity (Oxford University Press). The excerpt is published under the title, “Your job will never love you: Stress and anxiety in our frightening new job world.” This excerpt nails it. If you didn’t feel stressed and anxious before reading it, you will feel that way by the end.

Pugh writes of lay-offs (aka, “hatcheting”) and the substantial proportion of laid-off workers, particularly men, who never find jobs back at their former pay scale. She writes of the one-way honor system in which employees are loyal to their employers but the loyalty isn’t reciprocated. She writes of the “new insecurity” and the subsequent increase in work hours.

“[W]orkers have responded to perceived job insecurity by working harder and longer. American workers of every racialized group, gender, and wage level have increased their work hours since the late 1970s. Even with a postrecession dip, the United States logs higher average annual hours worked than the OECD average, with Americans working four more weeks than the British, nine more weeks than the French, and eleven more weeks than the Germans, although as recently as the late 1970s, American and European work hours were about the same. As Arlie Hochschild documented, people face a “time bind” in which they acquiesce to ever-increasing demands of work and find themselves squeezing their nonwork lives into ever-smaller increments.”

She asks an important question, “What do employers owe us, and what do we owe our employers?” If insecurity is the new reality, I have some questions too: What do we owe ourselves? And, for those of us who think of life as a spiritual journey, how does this new reality become part of that journey and the broader reality such a journey suggests? No quick answers to any of these questions. In Finding Livelihood, I try to come at these and other questions by means of a lyric nonfiction approach. If any of this resonates with you, I hope you'll join me on those pages.

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[Photo: taken of a page from Finding Livelihood.]