What is Success? For What Are We Grateful? A Film Recommendation

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If you’re adding film titles to your 2013 must-see list, here’s one to consider: Longford, an HBO drama telling the true story of British Lord Longford, played by Jim Broadbent. I’ve recommended it many times since I first saw it in 2009 and did so again a week or so ago. Few films still have me thinking about them years afterward.

A devout Christian, Longford visits prisoners as part of his spiritual practice. In the beginning, the film shows him in an interview saying that the greatest achievement in his life is visiting and helping prisoners. Then the story begins.

A notorious criminal asks him to visit her, a woman convicted of a heinous crime involving the most vulnerable and precious members of society. They begin meeting regularly, and he helps her over many years in her legal battle. His long-term relationship with her becomes the greatest achievement of his life’s greatest achievement.

Yet his efforts collapse in complete and utter failure. If I told you why it would be a spoiler, yet your guess probably comes close. Lord Longford is devastated and broken, an object of public scorn.

Time passes and he eventually writes a book on another topic. In an interview about this book, the subject of his visits with this prisoner comes up. The interviewer asks him if he regrets helping her. Longford pauses and says no. (Disclaimer: I don’t have a transcript of the film and so this is my memory + paraphrasing kicking in.) He says he is grateful to her. He says that deepening his faith is what his spiritual journey is about and that his experience with her helped him at that. The film doesn’t end there and I won’t say anymore about the plot lest you plan to watch it and think I’ve spoiled it enough already.

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New Year's Intentions – 2013

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I like the word "intention" better than "resolution." It implies something to work toward, move toward, rather than something at which you either succeed or fail.

Here's what I'm intending for the new year:

  • Experiment more.
  • Create more; consume less.
  • Trust more; worry less.
  • Read more; write more; watch less.
  • Write more of what lasts longer.
  • Waste less time.
  • Spend more time in "creative idleness".
  • Spend less; save more.
  • Pray more.
  • Use more paper, lots of paper.
  • Use a pen more, a keyboard less.
  • Find an agent; find a publisher; deliver a manuscript worth publishing, worth reading.
  • Love more.
  • Talk less but say more.
  • Figure out how patience and urgency co-exist.
  • Hope always.
  • Cook more; eat less.
  • Start sewing again.
  • Play the piano more.
  • Pursue truth, beauty, and goodness at every opportunity; realize every moment is an opportunity.
  • Stand up straighter.
  • Speak more often in the strength of my own voice.
  • Find the way to do what needs to be done; sit quietly and wait for the Lord.
  • Accept paradox.
  • Pray more, pray without ceasing.
  • See the signs, ask for signs; be more willing to step into the unknown.
  • Use less; have less; give more away.
  • Shorten my to-do lists.
  • More intentionally be a conduit for the flow of God's grace to the world.
  • Be silent more often.
  • Pray more fervently for safety coast to coast but live less fearfully.
  • Remind myself as often as needed where true hope lies.
  • Start fewer projects but finish more of those I start.
  • Be encouraged.
  • Be excited.
  • Be more attuned to the burdens of the people I pass on the street as well as those with whom I share a table or a home.
  • Love God with ever more of my heart, soul, strength, and mind.
  • Thank more.
  • Eat less sugar but more dark chocolate.

What's on your list?

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